It’s so nice to be validated by scientific studies! For a very long time now, I’ve been saying that the success of Facebook is based upon the need of
people to have their existence validated. It is a central component to being successful in marketing on Facebook and why I always tell my web marketing clients in Miami to be sure they understand, that marketing in general is never about you, but rather about me – your customer. If my interests, my needs, and my ego are at the core of your marketing then if your product is worth a damn – you win!
Yay me! I’ve been validated…
Everyone just wants to belong, right? In the online aspect of our lives, Facebook offers us that virtual sense of belonging. The study claims that Facebook meets two basic social needs: 1 the need to belong and 2 the need for self-presentation. Self-esteem and self-worth are associated closely with the first basic social need, to belong.
via Study: Why Do People Use Facebook?.

I’ve been saying that this isn’t sustainable for over a year. I guess I should become an high-paid prognosticator at Forester. I don’t care how old you are, you cannot sustain the level of data flowing in without losing your mind.
And in terms of time spent, social networking consumes more time than going to church; communicating by phone, e-mail, and snail mail; and exercising. “It’s just a little less than shopping and child care,” Colony said.
Today’s status quo won’t last, he predicted.
“We are in a bubble for social startups,” he said. When it bursts, “this is going to sweep away some of the nonsense, like FourSquare. We are going to move to a post-social world that’s a little like the Web in the year 2000. A lot of companies launched, but they did not survive.”
The next wave of social services will be “more efficient and more time-saving,” he said.
via Social networking’s salad days are ending, Forrester says | Deep Tech – CNET News.
Facebook subscriptions are about to blow up! At Le Web, Joanna Shields, VP and Managing Director for Facebook Europe, Middle East and Africa (EMEA), announced that the company is planning to roll out a “Subscribe” plugin for all websites. The plugin will allow a website’s visitors a one-click way to begin following all of the news from an individual reporter, public figure, politician, celebrity, or anyone else who wants to post public updates via their Facebook user profile.
via Facebook To Launch A Subscribe Button For Websites | TechCrunch.

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This is a great piece by Ron Johnson who built the Apple Stores. I don’t usually post things about retail, because it’s not my expertise, but this paragraph sums up everything that is changing about marketing, selling, relationships and more whether online or in retail. This is the future and strangely enough, it’s the past. We are returning to the days where you counted on your local merchant to help you, know you, and provide superior service. It will be the death knell of those that don’t get it.
I am an Apple Store customer on a regular basis, because they make it easy and helpful and I TRUST them. There are great lessons here that I try to impart to our Miami Internet marketing clients and the primary one is, no matter what you sell and how many you sell, you better be about the relationship and the value you can provide before, during, and after the sale. The benefit to you is huge, because it means you don’t have to work nearly as hard to get repeat sales and referrals and you gain loyalty.
But if Apple products were the key to the Stores’ success, how do you explain the fact that people flock to the stores to buy Apple products at full price when Wal-Mart, Best-Buy, and Target carry most of them, often discounted in various ways, and Amazon carries them all — and doesn’t charge sales tax!
People come to the Apple Store for the experience — and they’re willing to pay a premium for that. There are lots of components to that experience, but maybe the most important — and this is something that can translate to any retailer — is that the staff isn’t focused on selling stuff, it’s focused on building relationships and trying to make people’s lives better. That may sound hokey, but it’s true. The staff is exceptionally well trained, and they’re not on commission, so it makes no difference to them if they sell you an expensive new computer or help you make your old one run better so you’re happy with it. Their job is to figure out what you need and help you get it, even if it’s a product Apple doesn’t carry. Compare that with other retailers where the emphasis is on cross-selling and upselling and, basically, encouraging customers to buy more, even if they don’t want or need it. That doesn’t enrich their lives, and it doesn’t deepen the retailer’s relationship with them. It just makes their wallets lighter.
via What I Learned Building the Apple Store – Ron Johnson – Harvard Business Review.
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